Whether you're single, hooking up, friends with benefits, or dating, what do you want in a relationship?
Here are eight virtues to strive for; but equally important, you should look for these virtues in your choice of boyfriend/girlfriend. Be sure to read the "Opposites" in this list, and if your boyfriend/girlfriend sounds more like the Opposite than the Virtue, you might want to re-think the relationship.
Always truthful. Never lies, deceives, steals, or takes advantage of the trust of others. (Opposite - dishonest, insincere)
Treating others and their property with care, honor, and respect. Never rude, abusive or malicious. (Opposite - disrespectful)
Giving to others. Thinking more of someone else's needs rather than your own. (Opposite - greedy)
To have confidence that you can do what you set out to do and then to finish what you've started in spite of adversity. (Opposite - a quitter)
To be sincere, genuine, true, and reliable. (Opposite - fake, unreliable)
A personal commitment to support, protect, and defend family, faith, friends, teammates, school, and country, even under pressure. (Opposite - unfaithful)
Doing unto others as you would have them do unto you. (Opposite - treating others unfairly)
Calmly waiting. Putting up with pain, troubles, difficulties, and hardships without complaining. To wait or persevere without losing heart or becoming bored. (Opposite - Impatient, I want it now!)
What's important? What's not?
Share your thoughts and feelings with other teens - through stories, comments, or get a little creative with some poetry.
Everybody's been hurt, dumped, or had their heart broken at one time or another; and it always helps to know you're not alone and what others did to feel better.
This is your place to let those feelings soar or just get them out.
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Check out some powerful poetry:
I wrote you name in the sand,
But the sea wore it away.
I wrote your name on my hand,
But washed it off the next day.
I wrote your name on a piece of paper,
But accidentally threw it away.
I wrote your name in my heart,
And forever it will stay.
Too young to love, but I thought I did.
It was just lust. I can't believe what I did.
Now you're gone.
It felt like you never cared,
But I thought the love was real that we shared.
All the lies and the stories that you told,
How could your heart have been so cold?
So don't forget, you reap what you sow.
Roses are red.
Violets are blue.
Babies come easy,
So watch what you do.
Here I sit with my face to my knees,
Arms wrapped around my waist trying to crush the painful void within.
Salty tears run down my cheeks,
My tribute to the broken love.
Many say it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all,
But to me that does not apply.
If I had never had you, I wouldn't be feeling this deep pit of sorrow,
This low feeling that makes my heart sink to the darkest part of my soul.
My memories of you make my heart ache.
My skin longs for your touch.
My lips long for yours,
But their desires shall never come?you are gone.
You are gone, never to return to me.
You are gone forever, away from the outreach of my grasp.
Never again will my fingers entwine with yours.
Never again will your arms hold me.
So here I sit with my face to my knees,
Arms wrapped around my waist trying to crush the painful void within.
Salty tears run down my cheeks,
My tribute to the broken love.
Sex is a game.
Boys get all the pleasure.
Girls get all the pain.
Ten minutes of pleasure,
Nine months of pain.
Sinking in memories,
Drowning in love,
Breathless on answers,
Your heart is washed up.
Your feet touch the soft sand.
You're finally free
Of the strong ocean waves
In this great sea.
You're way under water.
You're choking on dreams,
Stitching together
The wide open seams.
You're way under water.
You're in need of air.
You try to touch bases,
When nothing is there.
I told you I was pregnant and you smiled.
You told me you wanted it and I smiled.
We picked out names and we smiled.
I went to my doctor and saw the baby and I smiled.
I showed you the ultrasound and you smiled.
I framed the picture of our baby and we smiled.
I told my friends and they smiled.
My friends said congratulations and you smiled.
You and my friends got closer and I smiled.
My friends told me you didn't want the baby and I frowned.
My friends put you on speaker phone and asked if you wanted it.
You said "no" and I cried.
I asked you if you wanted the baby and you said "yes."
You lied.
Now it's over and I think of our baby and I smile.
You will think of our baby and frown.
Our baby will think of you and know that you didn't want him and frown?
Then smile because I do and always will want him.